Through Bessie's Eyes

Gus and Catherine Linn had 7 children, 3 girls and 4 boys. Two of the girls died at a young age, leaving Mary Linn as the only surviving girl with 4 brothers (John, William, Andrew, and Charley).

In 1887, when Mary was 24, she married Milan Curtis. The couple lived in Dayton where Milan worked in an egg house.

Mary was good friends with Henry (aka Harry) and Elsie Meanor Kinney, who had 6 children. Sadly, Elsie died shortly after the birth of her youngest child. Harry was unable to take care of all of the children. Some were adopted by local couples and two stayed with Harry's parents. The 5th child, Bessie, at just 18 months of age, was adopted by Milan and Mary Linn Curtis who were unable to have children of their own.

Elsie Kinney Obituary

Several years ago, I corresponded with the granddaughter of Bessie and received a remarkable 36-page autobiography written by Bessie in 1976, just 3 years before her death. Today, I'd like to share a small part of it with you because Bessie writes about her early years in Dayton and describes some of her uncles and aunts, the Linns, to the reader.

I was born December 14, 1895, in Fort Dodge, Iowa. My parents were Harry and Elsie Kinney. When I was 18 months old, my mother died. There were six children in our family, and I was next to the youngest. After my mother's death, I was adopted by Milan and Mary Curtis. They lived in Dayton, Iowa. My grandfather and grandmother Kinney also lived in Dayton. Mama and Papa Curtis were old friends of my parents. My brothers and sisters were Flossie, Dorsey, Georgia, Nellie, and Percy.

I was raised as an only child and given much love....When my mother first brought me home, she sent me to meet my father. When she saw him coming, she said "go meet papa". So I toddled down the path and when I met him I said "papa". That was all it took. He was my slave from then on!

Mama Curtis had three brothers that lived on farms near Dayton. Mama's parents [Gus and Catherine Linn] had been born in Sweden, and two of her brothers married Swedish wives. [Note: That would be John and Andrew.] I used to love to go to their places. Our Uncle John had a large house and a great big barn, at least it looked so to me. Aunt Maria [John's wife] used to make Ostakaka, or Swedish pudding, that I was crazy about. When I got old enough to have a bicycle, I would ride to their place once in awhile. It was six miles from town.

The thing I remember about Uncle Bill's place [William Peter Linn] was the fried chicken, cream gravy and home made ice cream that was out of this world. They had a big refrigerator and I loved to look in there and see the big crocks of milk. Uncle Bill had five children, and Ivy, the girl, was just about my age....My folks always kept a horse and buggy so went to each of the three places quite often.

Uncle Andrew and Aunt Ellen [our Andrew and Elin Linn] lived over near Stratford. In the spring I could hardly wait for school to be out so I could go over to Uncle Andrew's. They had three children, all near my age [Elsie, Peter, and Frank], and when I went over there, their school wouldn't be out yet and I went with them. It was fun to carry my lunch in a bucket and then, when their school closed, the teacher always had me take part in the program.... Another thing I loved to do over there was to pick June berries. One day Aunt Ellen and I walked over through the field to call on one of her neighbors. We picked wild strawberries on the way.... Frank, their youngest boy, was about my age. We liked to find pretty chicken feathers. We would ... [pretend] horses and played all kinds of games.

There was a nice creek that flowed past our town and in the winter the townspeople would put in a dam so as to form an ice pond. That was before the days of the electric refrigerator, so a good many people put up their own ice. My father, being in the produce business, had two large ice houses because he used ice to ice the box cars that he shipped butter and eggs to Chicago.  

When my folks went over to Uncle Andrew's in the fall of the year, we would go to the river road. Someone had a little run-down looking store, which we called Hard Scrabble. On that road there was alot of hazel nut brush and we would gather those. 

One of the outstanding events in the summer was the Fourth of July celebration. They had a big park south of town where they had a parade and marched and gave speeches. As I remember it, someone always gave the Gettysburg Address. Dayton had a good band, so we had lots of music. 

NOTE: Milan Curtis became very ill and had 55 gallstones removed at the Mayo in Minnesota. While recuperating, he and Mary took a trip into Canada and the Western United States. Following is Bessie's recollections about their move from Iowa to Idaho.

Dad had fallen in love with Idaho, so when they came home, he sold his business, sold the house, and sold some furniture and shipped the rest to Payette, Idaho. We came out by train. [NOTE: Bessie was 15 and a junior in high school.]

The rest of her autobiography is about their time in Idaho and Oregon, with portions adopted from the granddaughter's interview of Bessie:

Bessie married twice, had 3 children. Bessie and her first husband separated when the youngest, Betty, was just about 5. Bessie sent one son to live with an Aunt in California, another son to live with Mary and Milan Curtis, and the daughter Betty to the State Home for Children. This was so that Bessie could go to business school and learn a skill to support her and her children.

Grandma Mary Curtis went to visit Betty in the State Home after she had been there several weeks. She found Betty crying in the corner and not liking how Betty was being treated insisted that Bessie remove her from there. She was only there two to three months. She then stayed with Grandma and Grandpa Curtis [Milan and Mary] until her mother finished school.

Bessie Kinney Curtis

Bessie died in 1979 of leukemia and is buried in Idaho.

Isn't this a wonderful snapshot of the late 1800's and early 1900's in the Dayton area? A peak at how loving Milan and Mary Linn Curtis were, not only with their adopted daughter Bessie, but also with their granddaughter in taking her out of the Home for Children? And a lovely look at our direct-line ancestors, John, William (Bill) and Andrew Linn, as well as a special mention about Frank Linn.

Our ancestors didn't write much that gives us clues about how they lived their lives. But what a gift, in this case, to learn about them from a life sketch written and shared by Bessie. If you have a diary, a journal, a letter, or any other document that shows something about the day-to-day lives of our ancestors, will you please share it? Scan or copy it so we can all learn and appreciate the lives our ancestors lived.

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